Double standards - act 1238927409471

[razorjak]

You know, we don't ALWAYS fight. But I know it seems like it because the only time I really talk about her is when we fight. Sorry about that.

She gets home at 4:15am (6 hours after her office party let out) and had the nerve to start questioning me where I had been. Funny that, all I did was ask her where she'd been. She said "out" to which I replied "okay" But no, I can't do the same. If I had said "I was out" It'd immediately go into "WHo IS SHE? Who are you fucking behind my back?"

I don't know what amazes me more. The fact that she has that double standard or the fact she doesn't understand how it's a double standard.

I'm really sick of this shit. She's known where I've been 99.9999% of the time since I moved in with her. But because it's not 100% she's convinced I am fucking someone else. GODS!!!!!!!

I'm sick of the accusations! I've done my damnedest to be "faithful" to her. Which is funny since we both stated we were poly when we started seeing each other. And even though I've not been with ANYONE else ( except for the two different girls over the summer that SHE wanted us to have threesomes with ( actually there was three that she wanted to do but the third is someone I find repulsive in both body and personality) ) since we started dating even casually.

I mean HELL ... I even behaved myself at Convergence! And someone who reads my livejournal knows JUST HOW DIFFICULT that was ... don't you?

GAhhhh ...

Comments

Hey man...

[deadbeat.livejournal.com]

You know... I've been through that situation... Many times, it seems... Although one of the times it let to a divorce. All you can do is try.

But bottom line is: "Do what is best for you, and your sanity".

Because if you are not doing something that is good for yourself, how can you expect to be good for anyone else.

Take care

[zentariana.livejournal.com]

the thing that strikes me about that is that she doesn't tell you where she goes. or you don't care to ask because you're sane.
most people who freak out about someone else cheating on them are cheating themselves, it seems to me.

and.
heh.
i didn't know you knew how to behave ;)

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[razorjak.livejournal.com]

>and.
>heh.
>I didn't know you knew how to behave ;)

Neither did anyone else ... when I said that to the people I work with they started busting out laughing and then stopped ... "Oh you're serious?"

[the-tatyana.livejournal.com]

What's the point trying to deal ratioanlly with an irrational person?

PS. You were very behaved at Convergence.
:>)

Agreed....

[deadbeat.livejournal.com]

> most people who freak out about someone else cheating on them
> are cheating themselves

I have found that to be true also.

[madamev.livejournal.com]

Yes, Convergence..very difficult! :)