damned computer!

[razorjak]

I had a whole rant down and was about to hit the send button and my system locked up. Maybe the poor M$ product got scared of my rage and pissed itself from sheer fear.

Anyway to put it shortly ... She told me this morning she's moving not at the end of May but in the middle of April. Did I not say she'd up the date?

The only reason she's not moving tomorrow ( if she could ) is because her Ex had already bought tickets for the 15th in order to pick the kids up for the spring break.

So it's okay to rip the kids out of school TWO MONTHS before the end of their semester. It's okay to make me find a place to live a month before my semester ends. It's okay for her to have me help her with her schoolwork only to see her drop out to follow a pipedream ... but heaven forbid she make Mike lose money on a planeticket.

FUCK

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[razorjak.livejournal.com]

The sad thing is ... in her mind I'm sure I'm the bad guy.

I'm the one that has tried time and time again to get her into counselling.

I should have taken the aftermath of our first date as an omen of how this relationship would turn out ...

I was happy to the point of not keeping my guard up and my defensive positions secure. Hence I got jumped by two ghettofucks trying to mug me for my gameboy.

I should know by now that (at least for me) being happy ends in SEVERE pain.

If I ever say "I've got a new girlfriend ... " I want someone to fucking blow my head off before I finish the sentence.

[zentariana.livejournal.com]

sorry to be slightly less "sorry", but how about instead of avoiding relationships, you just try to get out of them when they start getting bad. she's been doing this florida thing for a long time now. she's been driving you crazy for longer than that.

get girlfriends. be in love. just be careful and don't allow people to treat you like she's treating you.

[ex-electroly478.livejournal.com]

the capacity of people to be selfish and immature totally amazes me on a daily basis. and the sad truth is that if she's that selfish and immature ... well, you'll always be the bad guy. i'm the bitch who ruined my ex's life, according to him. there's nothing i can do about him thinking that and after i stopped being mad about it and just ceased to care he slipped out of my peripheral vision, to the relief of my mental health.

and happiness is not bad karma. just because you're happy doesn't mean it's going to come back and bite you in the ass. if anything, being happy is good karma. just sometimes we waste our time on the wrong people.

you can take or leave my completely-uninvolved-don't-know-anything observation, but it sounds like you're WAY better off without her.